Working Together to Break the Cycle of Violence

September 17, 2012

Working Together To Break The Cycle Of Violence

Domestic violence is an issue that affects people of all ages, ethnicities, religions, educational backgrounds and income levels. According to the Center for Disease Control, one in four women and one in thirteen men has experienced abuse from an intimate partner.

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. To kick-off the month, a group of organizations and agencies throughout the Upstate are teaming together to host a joint press conference and month-long social media campaign to raise awareness regarding the issue of family violence and to encourage individuals, families, businesses, faith communities, organizations and groups to join in the effort to “break the cycle” of violence, insuring peace and safety within relationships and homes throughout the Upstate of South Carolina.  Together, we believe that we can make the Upstate of South Carolina a safer place for children, women and men.  During the month of October, our agencies will collaboratively promote the following steps towards prevention of violence in the Upstate of South Carolina.

Five Community Steps towards Prevention of Relationship Violence:

1. Modeling healthy relationship behaviors at home.?
Witnessing violence between one’s parents or caretakers is the strongest risk factor for transmitting violent behavior from one generation to the next. Children who grow up in homes that are free from physical, sexual, and emotional violence are significantly less likely to perpetrate violence or to become victims of violence in their adolescent and adult intimate partner relationships.

2. Promoting education and awareness of healthy relationship behaviors
Currently, one out of three teenagers will experience dating violence, and two-thirds of them will not report the abuse to anyone. To end relationship violence, teens and adults must learn the basic characteristics of a healthy relationship, such as respect, trust, and honest communication while also being aware of the warning signs of relationship abuse.

3. Providing opportunities for building self-esteem, independence and empowerment?
Low self-esteem and dependency are common risk factors that contribute to abuse in relationships. Individuals who feel confident in themselves and their skills will feel empowered to gain and maintain lifelong stability and independence, thus avoiding unhealthy relationships that result in power, intimidation and control.

4. Involving men in the movement for healthy relationships and supporting healthy masculinity
Our goal is to involve all people, including men and boys, in an effort devoted to creating a future without violence. Involving men in the effort to end relationship abuse and supporting a healthy understanding of masculinity means supporting communities that are free from harassment and domestic violence and lives that are better for women, children, and men.

5. Offering concrete intervention, resources and support for victims ?
Domestic violence is not simply a personal or family issue; it is a community issue. Community members must feel empowered to safely intervene when witnessing violence by contacting local law enforcement and referring victims of abuse to safe and confidential resources for emergency shelter, counseling, case management, legal advocacy, and education.  Building community awareness of the United Way’s 211 program, Mental Health America’s crisis line, Safe Harbor’s crisis line, and other emergency resources is essential in order to connect individuals and families with the services they need.??We believe that violence is a community issue that can be alleviated and prevented through the collaborative efforts of the entire community.

On Monday, October 1 at 10:00am at Clemson at the Falls (55 Camperdown Way Greenville, SC), our agencies will host a press conference to release these preventative steps and to stand together with state and community leaders as we begin a month-long collaborative awareness and prevention campaign through social media platforms and joint messaging.  We invite community members to join us for this press conference on October 1 and to get involved with volunteering or partnering with one of the partner agencies listed below. Together, we will urge our community to stand together in our efforts to raise awareness and take steps towards violence prevention during October and throughout the year.

Signed,
Safe Harbor?Compass of Carolina
MARYS House
YWCA of Greenville
Greenville First Steps
Little Steps
A Child’s Haven
Pendleton Place
The Julie Valentine Center
Foothills Alliance
The Junior League of Greenville
Defenders for Children
Domestic Violence Assistance
Think2Xtwice.org
The Hispanic Alliance
South Carolina Victim Assistance Network
Mental Health America
United Way of Greenville County
O.P.E.R.A./Centro De Familia
Upstate Fatherhood Coalition
Long Branch Baptist Church
Greenville County Schools
Pickens County School District
Oconee County School District
Anderson School District 1
Anderson School District 4
Greenville City Police Department
Greenville County Sherriff’s Office
Travelers Rest Police Department
Anderson County Law Enforcement
Oconee County Law Enforcement
Pickens County Sherriff’s Office
Clemson City Police
Solicitor’s Office, 10th Judicial Circuit
Solicitor’s Office, 13th Judicial Circuit
The Domestic Violence Council

I am a survivor of domestic violence.


“I didn’t know that I was being abused...

I am a survivor of domestic violence.


“I didn’t know that I was being abused because my definition of abuse looked different. My husband pushed me, but most of my suffering was verbal and psychological. I left my husband to protect our young daughter. Almost immediately I felt the weight of his oppression begin to lift. I could see a difference in my daughter as well. Then he broke into my home and assaulted me in-front of her.

I sought help and was led to Safe Harbor. My daughter and I are in counseling now. I am sorting out the mess that abuse has caused. I am finding my voice and seeking opportunities to grow and better my life as well as my daughter's. She will gauge her self-worth from my own self-worth. I must show her that she deserves the best, by expecting the best for myself.

Many years I suffered in silence. By telling my story and being honest with friends and family, I am taking control of my life again.”

- Beth

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